To some students, “going to college,” literally means just that – they’ll be leaving home and going away to school. Every August, thousands of recent high school grads leave home for the first time to start college. The chance to live on your own for the first time while gaining an education is an exciting opportunity, but it could seem a little overwhelming at first.
One important choice you’ll have to make has to do with your living arrangements. Will you be living on campus or off campus? Both situations have benefits as well as drawbacks, so it’s important to consider both sides of the story before making your final decision. I lived with my parents when I went to college because I opted to attend school in my hometown, but that isn’t possible for everyone. Even though I never lived on campus I used to visit my friends that lived in dorms, so I do have knowledge about their experiences.
Many colleges and universities have residence halls or dormitories designed specifically for students located directly on campus.
There are many other pros and cons to living on campus or off campus that aren’t in my lists. Some things will depend on your unique situation, so it’s a good idea to try and come up with your own lists in order to figure out what’s best for you.
I remember being slightly envious of my high school friends that went away to college when I decided to stay at home for school, but now that those years of my life are over I see that it really wasn’t that big of a deal. It may have seemed so at the time, but going to school that was close to my parents’ house still enabled me to earn a Bachelor’s degree. I didn’t have to shell out extra money or take out extra loans in order to live in a dorm (which weren’t the nicest, anyway, from what I remember.)
So my advice to you? Take everything into consideration and remember that nothing lasts forever. You may live on campus for your freshman and sophomore years but decide to get yourself an off-campus apartment as you finish up your degree. I actually got married during my senior year of college, so my situation was definitely unique from most of my friends’! We’re all distinctive individuals and we all need to do what’s right for ourselves!
Melissa Rhone earned her Bachelor of Music in Education from the University of Tampa. She resides in the Tampa Bay area and enjoys writing about college, pop culture, and epilepsy awareness.